Yesterday was Steak and BJ Day, a month after Valentine's Day and I guess it is the man's rebuttal to this holiday. In fact after reading about the holiday, I have learned that this is a win-win as men will try harder on Valentine's day to assure that they get a memorable March 14th. It makes sense to me.
You see here is the difference between men and women simply explained. Most women want romance, a little gesture that shows her that her man loves her. Doesn't matter if it is on a holilday in which he is obligated to show his love. All that matters to her is that she gets that gesture, flowers, a card, jewlery, chocolate, dinner, candlelight, and so much more define what Valentine's Day has become. Women want their man to gush and fuss over them and make a big ordeal and make them feel special. Men on the other hand, want a good steak and some oral sex. That is what it takes to make your man feel special and loved. And doesn't he deserve it?
At first I will admit, I thought, wow that is a little offensive, but once I gave it a little thought I realized that it is no more offensive than asking your man to be something that he usually is not on Valentine's Day to make you feel special. Men like to be spoiled as well, and why shouldn't they be? So their idea of romantic spoiling may be a little bit different than your own, but if he can muster it up and buy you a lala love card and send you roses so that you can brag to your friends about the wonderful man you have, then really, how awful is it that you reciprocate with something that makes him happy.While he is eating his steak, you'll have a mouthful of your own. Give him something to brag to his friends about.
After all aren't relasionships compromise?
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